Wednesday, 14 May 2008

Parents...


There is certain things in this world that many people dont realise about... how much sacrifice... how much love and passion parents have given to us... there is this one famous quote that i found about parents...

"You don't really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time around - and why his parents will always wave back" ~William D. Tammeus~


This quote made me think... why is that? we always see that happen.... why does a child wave at their parents and the parent always wave back??? is it just for fun?? ok.. lets put it this way... if we were walking... and then suddenly we see a child... that child waves or even smiles at us... we tend to smile back... why??? if it was me... these actions sometimes makes my problems go away.. just by a simple smile?? its weird.. but it happens... a stranger.. we havent even met before.. can make our life wonderful...

How can not a parent wave back at their child... we can always see a smile on these parents... which shows.. that they are happy to see their children happy.. this is how unselfish parents are... they are willing to sacrifice the world for their children s... to get whats best for them... and to see them successful... i am not a parent... i am not going to be one anytime soon (as in sooooonnn ) .... he he... but... i try to see what these parenthood is about.. what our parents think... it really interesting..

I have always taught that... everyone is slefish at certain points... but parents... are never selfish... they will always put their children first... even before them selves. this relationship... is one unique relationship... there is another quote which says this relationship the best...

"Romance fails us and so do friendships, but the relationship of parent and child, less noisy than all the others, remains indelible and indestructible, the strongest relationship on earth"
~Theodore Reik~

But... unfortunately... not all the families and parents are as heart-warming and loving... there are always some small number of parents that are abit selfish... but this does not happen so often... there are always reasons why these things happen... there are too much reasons to be covered.. but.. parents always have something up their sleeves... which is hard to figure out... nevertheless .... no matter what they do... no matter how irritating they could be... it is always best... if we just be patient... and not ruining the relationship... ;)




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