Parents...

There is certain things in this world that many people dont realise about... how much sacrifice... how much love and passion parents have given to us... there is this one famous quote that i found about parents...

"You don't really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time around - and why his parents will always wave back" ~William D. Tammeus~

This quote made me think... why is that? we always see that happen.... why does a child wave at their parents and the parent always wave back??? is it just for fun?? ok.. lets put it this way... if we were walking... and then suddenly we see a child... that child waves or even smiles at us... we tend to smile back... why??? if it was me... these actions sometimes makes my problems go away.. just by a simple smile?? its weird.. but it happens... a stranger.. we havent even met before.. can make our life wonderful...

How can not a parent wave back at their child... we can always see a smile on these parents... which shows.. that they are happy to see their children happy.. this is how unselfish parents are... they are willing to sacrifice the world for their children s... to get whats best for them... and to see them successful... i am not a parent... i am not going to be one anytime soon (as in sooooonnn ) .... he he... but... i try to see what these parenthood is about.. what our parents think... it really interesting..

I have always taught that... everyone is slefish at certain points... but parents... are never selfish... they will always put their children first... even before them selves. this relationship... is one unique relationship... there is another quote which says this relationship the best...

"Romance fails us and so do friendships, but the relationship of parent and child, less noisy than all the others, remains indelible and indestructible, the strongest relationship on earth"
~Theodore Reik~

But... unfortunately... not all the families and parents are as heart-warming and loving... there are always some small number of parents that are abit selfish... but this does not happen so often... there are always reasons why these things happen... there are too much reasons to be covered.. but.. parents always have something up their sleeves... which is hard to figure out... nevertheless .... no matter what they do... no matter how irritating they could be... it is always best... if we just be patient... and not ruining the relationship... ;)

Life as a Student...

Almost everyone goes through this phase of life, life as a student that is. There is a proverb about studying that attracted me.

" The more we study the more we discover our ignorance"

-Percy Bysshe Shelley-

This quote is very true.. Well, i think most of people will agree with me. The more we study, the more we discover our ignorance.. I think the same thing happens in life, the more older we become, the more things we learn, things that we dont even know existed. ok.. Going back to the original topic. about studying and life as a student.

Everyone says that the greatest time of all is being a student, well.. i cant really say i agree nor i disagree... That is maybe because i really havent tasted the working life yet. Thinking back again, maybe that is true.. when we enter working life, ur gonna do the same exact thing for.... EVER?? well, unless we change jobs of course..

For me, the best of being a student is.. hanging out with friends... its just... having fun all the time... just talking rubbish... hehe.. I am sure that every working person wish there were a student again or just wanna be a child again... there is just simply too much things to think about..

Student life would be the best if there is no EXAMs... it will just be a perfect nice loooonnnggg holiday.... swweeeeettt.... anyway.... the quote up there about ignorence... well... that is a totally different topic... its gonna be quite long if i start writing about ignorance... huhuhu... anyway.... thats all for now...

' Anger Management'

In life there will be certain situations where we have to be patient or tolerant ... without tolerance and patience all mankind will be in arguments all the time... worse case, it will be War 24/7.. they might just stop for eating and sleeping... hehe.. then arguement starts over again... Well there is alot of other reason an arguement can start... but without patients and tolerence there will be no peace in this world..


Some people just dont realise how important these attributes are... well... i'm writing about this because i just went through it recently where i have to be patient and tolerate with what happened... then i realized how important these attributes are... i just wanted to share these thoughtsss of mine...


I kept on thinking what would happen if i did'nt be patient or tolerate... well.. the worse case can be.. the other person will get hurt badly and all these friendship build over the years burnt just like that... but i am not the kind that can easily injure people unless my pride or my family is harmed... ok... coming back to the original topic... then i tell myself, " there is no point of doing something like that or just being mad " .... then another thought crossed my mind... " well, i wanted the other person to know what they have done to piss me off ".... well... hundreds of thought went through my mind at that time... i just cant write everything done... :)


Well.. at some point i was just too tired of thinking and just let it be... i cooled myself down and act like nothing... i am worried if this just might happen again.. well, it will... of course.. everyone goes through these ' Anger Management ' stage... i hope that i can still be patient and tolerate...


After reading back what i have written...i thought " Damn... This is soo lame... " .... then another thought comes and says... " whatever... atleast i have something to say... " ...........

"If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow"

-chinese proverb-

tHe sTart of SomeThing....

There was a time i just can't understand why people love to write what they feel on the net, why can't they just keep it to themselves, why must they write it somewhere so that other people can read it? weird... but alot of people do that... and also alot more read what they had to say. It doesnt matter if its about personal life or just writting a new random story...

But then, there came a time, i wish i could do the same.. write something ... and maybe they can get something out of what i have to say or just simply from my experience .. Different humans goes through different things.. they have different point of view... that are mainly affected by their past experience or just simply by what is rational to them. What i mainly write is based on my experience.

The reason i choose the title 'Come What May' is just because i like to know new things. i am an eager man that wants to know new things.. especially about what happens in life... what does other people go through and take it as a new experience for me.. it is really interesting to know what others go through as not everyone goes through the same thing.

Well, this is just an introduction for my Blog... thats all for now...