In life there will be certain situations where we have to be patient or tolerant ... without tolerance and patience all mankind will be in arguments all the time... worse case, it will be War
24/7.. they might just stop for eating and sleeping... hehe.. then arguement starts over again... Well there is alot of other reason an arguement can start... but without patients and tolerence there will be no peace in this world..
Some people just dont realise how important these attributes are... well... i'm writing about this because i just went through it recently where i have to be patient and tolerate with what happened... then i realized how important these attributes are... i just wanted to share these thoughtsss of mine...
I kept on thinking what would happen if i did'nt be patient or tolerate... well.. the worse case can be.. the other person will get hurt badly and all these friendship build over the years burnt just like that... but i am not the kind that can easily injure people unless my pride or my family is harmed... ok... coming back to the original topic... then i tell myself,
" there is no point of doing something like that or just being mad " .... then another thought crossed my mind...
" well, i wanted the other person to know what they have done to piss me off ".... well... hundreds of thought went through my mind at that time... i just cant write everything done... :)
Well.. at some point i was just too tired of thinking and just let it be... i cooled myself down and act like nothing... i am worried if this just might happen again.. well, it will... of course.. everyone goes through these
' Anger Management ' stage... i hope that i can still be patient and tolerate...
After reading back what i have written...i thought
" Damn... This is soo lame... " .... then another thought comes and says... "
whatever... atleast i have something to say... " ...........
"If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow"
-chinese proverb-